How? Who to?
Private counseling is open to all people and couples or constellations of any sexual, desire or relationship orientation and to all gender identities.
It consists in one to one hour and a half of session, in which we explore themes like personal history, sexual function and performance, sexual scripts, desires, imagery, self eroticism, self image and love, relationship history and personal definition, boundaries, intimacy, communication, technologies and ideals of pleasure. We will go through preferences, fantasies and desires, according to each person and to what they want to explore in the relationship with themselves and the others. We can co-create a new sexual script and new itineraries adapted to the wishes and self-discoveries of each person, couple or constellation.
The intervention uses counseling techniques, also mindfulness techniques, compassion therapy, sexological bodywork, and dissident sexualities techniques, breathing and pleasure awareness techniques are also taught, but also new frames for an identitarian pursuit, re-framing the way you see yourself and the others and the subsequent exploration, always through a lens of feminist and queer critical studies, sex positive / sex critical education.
The session is private, confidential and with the help of materials, if necessary.
Techniques and methods are taught in a direct form as acts and discourses are unlocked, from a simple conversation to a more practical and direct intervention. It can take take only one session or a plan of sessions, usually no longer than a year, twice a month.
The intervention starts with disassembling beliefs and myths and providing information and specific suggestions on each case, teaching techniques and creating scenarios sexually and emotionally safe for you to experience your sexuality in its full dimension.
After a session you can expect a lot of homework, as it is intended a sense of comfort and greater ease with your sexual experiences, along with will and curiosity to discover and open up new worlds of pleasure.
You can come to me if you feel anything in your relationship with yourself or the others concerning sexuality, intimacy, identity or relationships, poses a question or a problem. You can come to me if you want to achieve more pleasure or approach your practices in a different way.
Individual class of pompoir (pelvic pavement consciousness and exercise): 40€ per session. Full plan: 3 sessions in 6 months. The cost of the basic practice kit is 55€. Further options are available.
Individual sexual advice to trans* or gender non conforming people: 40€
Individual sexual advice to women: 60€
Sexual advice to couples, constelations or cis men: 80€
Vulva La Vida private class: 150€
Online Counseling available
*We work on a sliding scale base. The prices of the first session are calculated according to an acknowledgment of financial discrimination based in identities. After the first session, and during this one, there will be a time assigned to rethink the price according to your financial capabilities and how your budget meets your needs. In the same way, if you are abundant in financial resources, contributing more will mean more people have access to lower prices.
**a constellation is a relationship of more than two people. from 4 people on, the value is worked out to correspond to the time of work required
Before booking a reservation a previous conversation over the phone and an e-mail are required.
Unmarking less than 24h or non-show implies full payment of the session by ATM transfer. Unchecking with notice up to a week before implies payment of 50% of the value of the session, except in cases where it is justifiable.